Awaken Your Strengths: Being with Yourself

This is for me, one of the pleasures of life that many people to be discovered. That love that you can provide, that spirit that you can give, the eternal company you have to keep to yourself. Is not it true? Who else are along our life is ourselves, so it is advisable to get along with yourself, treat and take care of yourself. To make a friendly company, because if your own company is nice, when you have more company will be twice as nice. I appreciated all throughout my life that there are many people who can not be themselves. In my opinion is to be carried hither and thither by the wind and with little reason imposed. That is if you take the wind is because you are not sure where you're going. The first step is to know, know what you want and plan to do to be a piece of this society and what is more important, learn to love. It seems a terrible contempt for oneself not knowing him to be alone, that is, now I have to stay with this person and if it takes me to start the nerves.

Another example: something terrible has happened to me, I need to call someone to comfort me. Only a sample of inner weakness that we could learn with practice. We agree that the person is by nature sociable, that is, by nature and is something we relate to basic personal level, and even more in these times. We need to be in a family, either that or friends, but always in community or in connection with people, why be alone forever or alone would be meaningless as well be harming us ourselves. The two opposite poles ant's the point in your life: I think it must impose limits, yes, minimum. In this case one of them is necessary to share our world with others. It would not make sense to live in eternal darkness, but tell me: What meaning does your life? You live only for yourself? Away from the ego is critical to be a free person, the farther you are from your own ego more difficult it will catch you and hold you.

For a complete freedom as I said is essential to relate to other people or tell the world but as you release your feelings, thoughts, ways of seeing the world, etc.. It really would be unprecedented. Do you play a predominant role in your life a parrot? That said, we see that it is necessary to put a limit of loneliness, but, much as there is a limit of loneliness about relationship. Now expose the inverse of the above. A person who is always accompanied and socialized, ended in the dependence of this. This is also serious. Another thief of freedom. Among others, you can see the following negative things in these kinds of people:? Unit Office: - Inclination to depend on other people's thoughts, both sentimentally and professionally. In summary is not what one wants. leaving personal liberty in the hands of other people and no one knows better than you what you want, who you are and where you're headed. ? Possible rupture with oneself: Once these people go full tucked in society and led by alien thoughts attacks are feeling dizzy or lightheaded, everything goes round and round.

Why? Obviously, they have been around without imposing a single step of the initiative within, from one place to another to the floor dizzy. It leaves the feeling that you do not dictate your interior, in addition to this feeling, holding hands accompanies anger with himself or herself. ? Social rejection: Since being alone listen to our own opinion, to be alone for a long time we may have our opinion as the only true, it would be like having your ears filled with wax, not listening to others or even constructive thinking . It would be a mistake and the rejection of these people towards it. What would make your mind willingly went mad not to have to live always with the same routine, he would leave her sheltering in madness. And once it gets to the madness ... we would be at their mercy, again depending. ? Social phobia: The feeling of being overwhelmed that can produce is inexpressible, drowning you, makes you feel distant even from yourself, confusion with the environment, negative thoughts that affect our performance.

Do you see now clear where the boundaries between social isolation and dependence? I myself must find a compromise that will vary as we are changing and needs are not always the same. In this section, and discover you do not want to contribute, just let me say a little method: self-assessment and ask yourself. I do not want to contribute more simply because everyone must grow from the same, since each has its limitations, and knowledge more or less easily to perform them. As everyone should be a self-assessment and discover the same and of itself, and mark certain paths to follow. ''I do not mean to say that path you should take, if I told you one you depart from selfishness, but each is master of himself and has to do what he wants in his life. Each one is master of his feet and his footsteps. I can not give me the steps for you ``. So, I said, go ahead with your projects. And much encouragement. Love yourself, Appreciate. Eduardo Rodriguez-solucion.es Liza www.problemas