Men always return

I was in a bookstore to pay my plane ticket to flee the city where he had arrived with a suitcase full of dreams and now left with a broken heart. Suddenly I remembered the last time he had been there, my life was a different story: I had a few days regarding the above and just as I was walking through the halls looking titles, he had called to invite me to eat, as was customary in those days ...

So while sailing in those painful memories, highlighted the different books one that said in pink lettering "MEN (sometimes unfortunately) ALWAYS TURN"

I took the book and on the back saying just what I needed at that time: "Have you lost the man you love? Are you madly in love with him? Are you unable to forget? Are you determined to fight to get it back?"

Without further thought I bought the book and read during the flight.

First of all, the book is not what it promises. It clearly says "In these pages do not tell you how to overcome the break" and is just what he does. It is misleading because they make you think you'll find tricks to attract and pursue it with great results and actually what you say in a nutshell is: you have to forget it, stop waiting for him back, stop missing him, hanging out with other people and then return .

It seems contradictory that the author tells you to forget the idea of ​​recovery. Or forget it or forget it. Or you expect or not expect it. You can not leave out waiting!

I also find it quite arrogant stance of the writer to call the method "Method Parker" and all that apply "Parker girls" as if she were the discoverer of black thread and a new approach when he says nothing that has not all other books on breaks and relationships. I also seem to lose sight of the immense group of abandoned women, all sizes are all bank accounts and really very few who can leave work and go to South Africa to a country house and engage in buying antiques to put convenient distance to the former and forget it.

However, despite these details, I find the book useful, since it comes a stage in the obsession with former dreaming of a white magic formula to return, and when you have finished reading a different perspective clear that where you have to loosen things and move on with your life, regardless of whether the returns or not.

One element that I do is new is what the author calls "the extravagance insensitive" by the men after the break. This refers to all those attitudes which seem to not care about the separation, but who happen to be evidence to the contrary. Like what? Like any drastic change in their habits: start out partying constantly, or plan to sell your house and go explore Africa ...

In conclusion, it is a book I do recommend it to all those girls who walk with a broken heart especially since the book's title is an absolute truth, which I know because it has been with all the relationships I've had, but as the the author: as long as two factors come together: you have been let go without drama and the woman in question was able to rebuild their lives and move on.

And over time you will see, when he returns, if it really is someone worth having in your life.